Peace in relationships require a high level of understanding between both parties, the earlier you understand your partner the better for the both of you.. Loners are not just interesting people to date, they also make good friends as well, but if you fail to understand them, you will be subjecting yourself to a heart ache. We don't chose who we fall in love with, so just incase you fall for a Loner, here are few things you need to know about them..
They need space
Loners don't joke with their personal space. Not that they don't need you around, they don't just need you to be clingy. They don't like having so many people around them or hanging out with people they barely feel comfortable with. They would prefer to hang with you alone in a private dinner than with so many friends around. Their typical date will be a long walk in the beach or a private restaurant..
They rarely party..
A loner will prefer to spend the weekend at home than in a party. Dating a loner means that you have to sacrifice a lot of parties to spend time with them. And even if they do attend a party, they have more fun by watching people have fun. You might catch a loner letting loose on the dance floor once, but after then they retire to their shell..
They are sensitive.
Loners are deep thinkers so they tend to notice every tiny details of their environment or any situation. They are sensitive to what you say or do, you might want to think before you talk in their presence.
They feel differently..
Most times you might feel a loner doesn't love you or give you attention, but their silence means they really care, they want to allow you express yourself to them, they are taking note of the type of person you are and that is because they really care about you and they want you to shine. Their need for space doesn't mean they don't want you around them, it just means that they are recharging their batteries. They are always there when you need them to meet your emotional needs.
They look snubbish..
Loners are always mistakened to be snubbish at first sight, but they are not. They take their time to observe the people around them and they only open up and become really social when you get to know them. To a loner, the little information you know about them is too much.
Criticism scares them..
Loners don't like living their life in the open for spectators. Because of their high level of sensitivity, they tend to stay away from anything that will attract criticism. They are self critical and they are careful of what people say, that makes them to be a people pleaser most times. But inorder not to be a people pleaser, a loner stays away from the crowd.
They are self sufficient
The internet craze and Fomo that makes people want to compete amongst themselves doesn't get to a Loner. They are comfortable with what they have and what they wear.
Above all, You have to accept a Loner the way they are and not force them to be what you want them to be.
Thanks for reading..
