It is certainly important to tread lightly in one's words in some matters - but this is different from not treading at all - and so I am glad that you chose to touch upon this topic.
Fortunately one does not need to be an authority to weigh in upon such topics - this we ought also to be thankful for as the World would be a far poorer place if only the certified and empowered made themselves heard. :c)
RE: Why Girls Are Attracted To The "Bad Guy"