In my opinion, you need to place more importance and appreciation on yourself for exactly who you are...Talking to others is wonderful, but you have to know that you are worthwhile, too. Endless comparisons to everyone else around you - friend, family, internet folks, or otherwise - will constantly leave you feeling at a loss personally, and more meek and feeling overshadowed by the rest of the world as a result. You don't need to do anything new...You don't need to add something different into the mix of who you are. You just need to appreciate that your existence is exactly as valid as anyone else's walking around, and you are deserving of that same love you give freely to everyone around you