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Feelings of falling in love are something that contains many contradictions, easy to understand, but at the same time save a thousand mysteries. How he is present, and why he can end or endure.
1.It takes only a fifth of a second to fall in love
Love can come so suddenly. Just a blink of an eye, when we look at someone, it only takes a fifth of a second message from the nerves to react in the brain. Did you know, there are 12 areas of the nerves of the brain involved when people fall in love. When we are thinking of someone we love, that's when we release the hormone neurotransmitters throughout the brain, including the ones, oxytocin, dopamine, vasopressin, and adrenaline.
2.The difference between love and sexual desire
Neural differences between love and sexual desire overlap, which is sometimes difficult to distinguish, but actually these two things are completely different. In sexual desire, the active area is the basic emotion, involving the motivation, and the area of thinking. While love, standing beyond sexual desire.
3.Kissing helps us choose a partner
Two studies of kissing found that in addition to making a person feel sexy, kissing also makes a person more confident with his partner and wants to survive. According to this survey, for women, kissing is a very important thing. Meanwhile, for men or women who often date, kissing is one of the important tests to check candidate dating, whether the relationship is worth continuing or not. Researchers also found a relationship between the number of kisses with the pattern of long-term relationship and relationship quality. The kiss turned out to affect the quality of the relationship. However, unlike the quantity of sex, researchers did not find a link between the quantity of sex with the level of satisfaction in the relationship.
4.Couple looks more like after 25 years together
We often see, those who are married in a long time, if noticed there are similarities in mimic and facial expression. According to a growing myth, it looks like it's a match. However, how is the explanation? Scientifically, the similarity could be due to the similarity of food and environmental intake. Psychologically, influential personalities as well as empathy addressed over the years, helped shape similarities.
5.Long distance relationship can survive
Many people assume, long distance relationship is impossible. Unfortunately, another determining situation. Is not, not everyone can choose ideal conditions? From a psychological standpoint, there are two factors that can make the relationship stay awake, ie sharing information in an intimate and have the same view of the ideal partner.
If both of these are met, then the pair undergoing this long distance relationship have the same level of satisfaction and stability as compared to the geographically shared partner.
6.Modern marriage is a means of self-fulfillment (self-fulfillment)
The institution of marriage has changed significantly in recent decades. In the past, the motivation of married people in search of security and establishment, now people want the psychological fulfillment of their marriage, as well as part of self-actualization. For that, each partner needs to invest enough time and effort to get there. Unfortunately, this is often overlooked. When two things can not be fulfilled, the couple should lower their level of expectation, to minimize disappointment.
7.Watching movies together can minimize visits to therapy
A three-year study found that divorce rates may drop by half after couples are asked to watch a movie depicting the life of a marriage and discussing it with a partner.
Ronald Rogge, the psychologist who conducted the study, said, "Husbands who can analyze and evaluate their relationships do not have to go to a therapist. They are also low risk for divorce, "he said.
8.Money is not everything
In the era of all-round commercial as now, everything can be traded. Many people assume, love can be bought by showering gifts on the couple. This is not always the case. 'Gift' does not have to be something that needs money. Attitudes and small things are sometimes far more valuable in watering love than expensive gifts. Making tea, helping with housework, or small compliments, is something that can strengthen love without getting out of money.
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