Nah, it's cool, mate. It's all about the exchange of perspectives. That's what we're here to do, I think. 😉

What I mean most by neutrality, is doing so in any given moment when triggered emotionally. I mean to use it as strategy, or a tool if you will, to work through the more challenging moments in relationships.

I'm saying to adopt neutrality instead of shouting, being forceful in your opinions and defensive.

I don't mean to say be passive, rather just not to go flying off the handle when there is no need to. Be rationale, talk, reason, reconcile differences in calm manner from the neutral perspective, allowing yourself to be unaffected by your own biased thinking.

A challenge, for sure. But one that is worth endeavouring with, and I've personally experienced positive results from.

However, if that still doesn't jive with you, then each to their own as they say. 🙏