It is story time ladies and gents. Take a seat and prepare because this is going to get juicy.
So we hear about this situation very often. Why do you think married men are more common to stray?
Before we are quick to place judgment or point the finger I do want you all to keep an open mind as we dive into real-life situations and weigh in on the situations from different perspectives. I have a few questions for you as well as we fo through these stories.
The Woman Who Didn't Know: Tonia ended up running into an old friend Twan at a restaurant one day and they reconnected after he asked for her number. He phoned her 30 minutes after seeing her at the restaurant and asked to hang out with her that night.Tonia gladly accepted and rushed to freshen up a bit. They talked and laughed all night and then parted ways. After that day Twan and Tonia seemed inseparable. They were going out on dates and spending more time with one another. One night after a few drinks and a great night Twan had this intense look in his eyes while he looked at Tonia like he was ready to devour her.
A chill struck down Tonia's spine as she gazed back at him. One touch led to another and they both made love. Safe to say these two were falling head over heels for one another as the weeks
turned into months and as the months slowly approached a year. One morning Tonia was woken up to a good morning text from her love Twan. Tonia was smiling most of the day due to her and Twan making plans to see each other later that day. Tonia was later on Facebook and glanced over to the side where she saw "People you may know/suggested friends", Tonia saw a face that looked semi-familiar but the person in the picture was at a distance in the picture (Body shot pic). Tonia clicked on the profiled and there he was ...Twan!
As a woman you know what happened next right? Yes, Tonia turned into the FBI and came across a series of pictures. Twan appeared to be with a woman like they went for prom or something. The problem was the year was 2015 and he was in his mid-twenties. Tonia kept clicking through the series of prom pictures as her heart started beating faster, then she saw it....there was a picture of Twan and the Woman with Mr & Mrs shirts on. Tonia's heart sunk into her stomach as it broke to pieces. She sat there in disbelief for a while trying to sort out what she just saw and what is she going to do when he arrives in less than an hour. Tonia tried to wait but she became enraged and sent screenshots of everything she found to him. Twan immediately tried to explain that he loves her and that he is sorry. Twan felt if he would've told Tonia the truth she wouldn't want him and he was right. Tonia has already got her feelings caught up in this man but she couldn't trust him so she leaves. A few months later, he pops up and her emotions draw her back to being involved as she second-guessed herself and was upset due to her morals and what she believes in. The affair went on for a few more months and then she finally cut it off for good realizing that she deserves better.
Do you think Tonia was wrong? Do you think Twan was a manipulator or could he have really had feelings? Can a man be in love with two women at once?
The Woman Who Knew From The Begining-
Emilia met Christian through a mutual friend. The first night was innocent as they just went out and had a good time and danced. One thing that could not be denied is that they had a connection. Later that night, Christian told Emilia he was married and put the ball in her court on what she would like to do. They exchanged numbers and talked a lot. They started hanging out and as it was obvious they liked each other, they were very cautious at first. Time went on and Christian was experiencing issues at home. The wife called Emilia's phone making direct contact but never said much. At this point Emilia is really asking herself "what in the hell am I doing & what did I get myself into"? See, Emilia loves to have her man too herself and she knew this was a total different situation and she done fell for Christian. What a fucking situation. Emilia and Christian continued to see each other and began being intimate. He would always make effort to see her,pop up when they had disagreements and made her feel like he really wanted her. I believe they both would say their sexually compatible. Christian started to change ..he got distant from Emilia going through changes in his marriage and he wasn't so vocal. He explained he doesn't feel like himself and he met Emilia married and at this point, he doesn't know what or who he is right now....he doesn't even know what to say to Emilia.
Emilia really sees how great of a person he is and just wants him to be happy but at the same time, she doesn't want to continue getting stood up, lead on etc. The wildcard is that Emilia was told that the wife had her own side situation going on but not with a man. To be continued...........
Emilia knew the situation and curiously dove in and now is in a crazy situation.Is she wrong?
LETS CHAT: I feel as if men stray for many different reasons. Some stray for something new and a thrill. Some may even stray due to missing something, some are just pigs and others really falling in love with someone else. Women always let their emotions get the best of them. In some situations, I can say the women couldn't help it and in some situations, they are at fault.
Have you been in this situation before?