The law of acceptance
The person who took third place is always happier than the one who took the second place. This is not logical. But all those who took second place begin to reproach themselves for the fact that if he had done something a little better, strained, more trained, would have come first. He does not celebrate his relative victory, because many people fought for the second place, but constantly scrolls his defeat, because he did not take the first one. The one who took third place, just grateful to fate, because often he did not even count on anything like that, he just got lucky. If we consider this law in professional sports competitions, everything may look and not so rosy, but if we consider it in the same way as human relations, then everything becomes clear and every person has a million such examples.
For example, two big friends from the village have come to study in the big city. One - a clever and beautiful woman, an excellent student, who has big plans and ambitions. The second is an ordinary girl, who does not differ in anything outstanding, and neither special knowledge nor external data. Both successfully married. The first girl will constantly think if she did the right thing, maybe with her talents, she could find someone better, and she will continue to look around, suddenly, someone will appear better than her husband, and he will be her appreciate more. The second will be generally glad that she was married, because she adequately assesses herself and generally did not count on anything, she will consider that she is very lucky and appreciate the family and her husband.
Law of gratitude
If you help someone, then you should not wait for help and thanks in return, you too will receive your help in difficult circumstances, but absolutely from another person who will return this karmic debt to you.