Are you more likely to avoid conflict or engage it head-on?
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Am I going to offer my left cheek or right cheek first or will I run and hide? I have often asked myself this question in life and my answer always changed! There was a time that I stood up for myself with pride and anger and a time where I ran away as fast as I could to hide and sink away in places where no one would find me.
While I really do not like conflict or fights, I will also not walk away. I will engage it head-on and either work things out or not. There is no way in hell that I will pain myself with questions of what went wrong without knowing! That eats me up way more than having a difficult talk and or discussion that can become very heated! I like to see myself as a peaceful person but I am also not going to swallow everything! I speak up when I need to and sometimes that comes as a shock to people.
I am a happy sparkly person and often very quiet. I do not engage a whole lot and for me that is okay. I like to listen and observe more than to mingle. The other side is that my door is always open for a talk and a chat. I will always try to help where I can, sometimes even without asking! if someone had a problem with me, I really hope they will come to me head-on as well. I rather speak/fight things out than let them linger and grow into something huge that can't be turned around!
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Nose first and perhaps a tad nervous but head-on it is these days! You see, I don't see anything wrong with a good debate or talk! I will get head-on but always with the will and hope that things will be worked out in a nice way for both parties!
Do you go in head-on or do you avoid conflict? I would really love to know how you feel about this and how react to things! Please feel free to share your answers down below and I will try to reply to them all! Because thats fun to do! Plus I really like the fact that I am getting to know you all a bit better this way!
