Some people are not loyal to you..... they are loyal to their need of you... once their needs change so does their loyalty. Stop worrying about what people say about you. What they say doesn't matter . What matters is what you say about and to yourself. You will never be defeated by the wagging tongues . You will however be defeated by the negative voices in your head . Use the word of God to hear down false and disemporing beliefs . Don't be your own enemy . You have the tools. You have the power. You have the world. The mind is in the battle field..