My Sister 
"Why are bad things so easy to obtain and good things so hard? Why is it hard to make money but easy to spend, why is it easy to gain weight but so so hard to loose, why is it easier to eat fast food but hard to eat healthy or why is it hard to lead a relationship but easy to break up?"
My answer was:
"Just like for this question there is no right or wrong answer the concept of good and bad or hard and easy exists in the individual perspective of a person. A relationship thats hard to lead could be a sign that something is wrong and so a breakup is easy but it could also be otherwise a relationship that is easy to lead could be a sign of harmony and a break up would be hard. If we look at gaining and loosing weight both is equal to each other but it has a lot to do with the human psychic if we get used to eat healthy it will be easy for us to keep it that way the same is it with unhealthy food. Also its always easier to give the power of decision to someone else because than you dont to participate actively but just follow orders. For example to employe people is harder than being an employee , to cook at home is harder than going to a restaurant, to decide witch movie to watch is harder than turning on the tv. The nature of a human is a lazy one thats why we have cars, washing-machines or elevators all inventions of lazy people.Also fear plays a big role. I dont quit the job i hate because im afraid i wont find a new job, I dont open my own business because im afraid i will fail, i dont end this horrible relationship because im afraid I will stay alone. Most people sadly dont know that fear is something good fear leads the way we should follow and is under no circumstances a barrier. Like Jing & Jang Love cant exist without hate, happiness cant exist without sadness or in other words we wouldn't enjoy sunny weather if it wouldn't rain some times. We create our own reality because life it self is always in perfect balance its about how we live it."
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