Although I like this. I just don’t think it’s logical. I don’t think you should wait around to love someone because of the conflict you are in with yourself. Because if you do that, you’ll always have an excuse to not commit to a relationship. You are never going to 100% have yourself figured out. Even if for the slightest bit you think you’ve got it, in a matter of minutes that perspective and content could crumble down on you. Instead of trying to fix yourself and heal yourself, let that person help you heal and grow. Learn from that person, but also teach that person too. Grow and heal through love, not isolation. You’ll always be trying to heal, at least be able to give yourself something else to work on and give something to someone else’s life. If you love them, you love them, that’s it, and you would put in all your effort to do everything with that person because even if you’re not 100%, these feelings and experiences are what opens us up and keeps us going.
