It really done on me on the 25th of January, 2018 at Agbor , delta state, Nigeria, when my mind begin to ponder about this topic, “The Enemy of Trust in a Relationship” at about 5:12pm in the evening, then, I desired to pick up my pen to write down the following as the inspiration comes.
Trust in a vital tool or ingredient for a relationship to grow and successful. When there is trust in a relationship, the fear of suspect and cheating give way and have no root in the relationship. It will also interest you to know that trust makes you give your whole heart and trust to someone thereby believing so strongly on the person without having a second thought that he/she might disappoint you. What a great and adorable tool in a relationship!!! Remember, how sweet your relationship is or was when both of you trusted each other when there is trust now between you and him/her. It seems the world should not come to an end. What a loving relationship!!!
My big and simple question to you now is, how far, is it as it used to be before when you both first got started and calling yourselves all the sweet names the world can offer? If YES, a big congratulation, and encouragement to continue; but if NO, what do you think is now the problem? The problem lies within you and is not far-fetch.
Let us now really and carefully look what the enemy of trust in a relationship is. The enemy is what I amosico4real called: ”Change of Right Attitude”. Note that your attitude is your altitude, and your altitude is your level of height in life. That is to say, it determine how far you can go in life whether high or low all will be determine your attitude of life.
Change of Right Attitude is subtle in nature and it occur in a gradual way, something it may be noticeable or even not noticeable by the partners involved. Change of Right Attitude is the major reason why a relationship suffers suspension and therefore end in crisis, bitterness, and eventually brake up. What is that right attitude that was keeping the relationship growing smoothly and even to the point of other people or persons begin to emulate and envy both of you? Where did you lost yours to? Did you lost yours to your recent discovered civilization? If YES, go back to your fist Right Attitude when both of you got started. Think about this.
CONCLUSION
My kindly advice to as many people facing this enemy in their relationship is that “they should humbly with I am right, return to that first right thing that you were both doing before the enemy know as Change of Right Attitude occur or surface”. Let see together, as we read our bible from REVELATION 2:15, which says : “Think how far you have fallen! Turn from your sins and do what you did at first. If you don’t turn from your sins, I will come to you and take your lamp-stand from its place.“(GOOD NEWS BIBLE). So, you have heard, if you refused to return to your first right attitude, ready for the “enemy” that will land your relationship into crisis, bitterness, heart-brake and end up in brake up. And know that you are the enemy of your relationship. A word is a enough for the wise.
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I LOVE YOU, BUT GOD LOVE YOU MUST.
From amosico4real to you.