Today, I am diverting from my story, To Do or Not To Do, and sharing with you some signs that you should look out for as a lady if you want to know if your man is cheating or not!
Now ladies, you may be in self denial after reading this piece... but sis, if you see them signs, you better believe that this nigga be all up in another chick's phone, cheating on you.
So, 1st clue...
HE STOPPED FLAUNTING YOU OR DOESN'T FLAUNT YOU.
Well, we know that some men are quite shy and usually like to keep their relationships off social media. But, here's the thing. He doesn't put your picture up at all, only on your birthdays. You are never on his profile picture and wait for it.... No other chick is on his profile picture either. LOL, there is another woman. As simple as that. He's trying to protect you and the other girls from being hurt or steering up trouble. Don't believe me? Ask him today, to put your picture up for just a day and then, ask him to do it a week later. Best of luck!
2nd Clue
HE DOES NOT WANT TO TAKE PICTURES WITH YOU OR DOESN'T KEEP YOUR PICTURES ON HIS PHONE.
This one is quite tricky. This could mean that you are the side chick and he doesn't keep pictures of you or the two of you on his phone because he is afraid that his wife / girlfriend is going to stir up trouble. Imagine spending a lovely vacation with your man and taking a picture of his handsome self sipping some wine and he does this...
Sis, R-U-N. Simple.
3rd Clue
HIS FRIENDS.
How your man's friends relate with you could give you deep insight on whether or not hes cheating on you. How do they relate to you? Do they call you "Our wife" ? Or keep reminding you of how you are the only person in his life. Well, if the answers are yes, it's time to be alert. Fine, maybe they are just genuinely a cheerful bunch. But there is no smoke without a fire... is there?
The squad ladies.. beware of the squad.
4th Clue
THAT ONE PARTICULAR GIRL
Is there one particular girl he keeps telling you not to worry about? That they are just close friends? Nothing can ever happen between them? The one girl he's always texting? Well, you should be worried. Maybe your man is good. But what if she isn't? What if she is out for him? You can never know. So, want to know if there's something going on between them? Ask him to invite this close friend of his out with you all. There's no harm in getting to know his friends is there? If he doesn't....well, need I say more?
5th Clue
The final clue is... Does he look like this when he is on the phone?
If this is frequent, I'm sorry Sis. There is another woman.