Sometimes we get into a relationship and it feels like hell on earth, now this does not necessarily mean that there are quarrels or domestic violence, no!
Hell can be described as a place of discomfort, a state of discomfort, torture.
No one loves discomfort, we all want to live a comfortable life, enjoy our lives, enjoy our relationship, enjoy our marriage.
Like a man said After hell fire, a bad marriage is the worst thing that can happen, why because you can not come out, so instead of entering a marriage that will suck out strength from you and drain you emotionally, figure out what you want.
Some relationships are lack comfort. Comfort means ease. Some relationships lack ease, now there might be love but no compatibility; which is a very big ingredient to a sound relationship.
There might be no strong love in some relationships but compatibility has made them grow fond of each other and it is easy to love each other. It is like a safe haven.
When you find the right one, you do not struggle to be yourself, you feel so free to express yourself without fear of being judged wrongly; you see them accept you for who you are and work with you to become a better person. The love within you just finds expression.
Now the right person is not perfect, but he or she is right for you. This goes beyond physical attraction, which can only sustain a relationship for a while.
LOVE does exist when there is Compatibility and it brings ease with it.