No bird and would like to be cellar in a cage, no matter how nice it would be arranged or colored. Sooner or later will aspirate by high in the sky. And for that it will be able to make, will tend to turn the cage from a prison in a house. But the power to build illusions cannot be confused with the flavor of freedom. The bonus, every man is born free. No matter how you just wish, you cannot prevent anyone to advance; to follow their own way. You can have it deviating temporarily or you can be late. You will not solve but nothing by putting a padlock cage, hoping that he would become accustomed to the good which apparently you believe that I do. From the ones of the diversion of the way you will not receive the gratitude. You will receive the much forgiveness.
If you loved someone let him go, opens the cage: provides them freedom! If you will be coming back to you, enjoy together, celebrate. If he will not do this, I do not see why did you can enjoy learning that has migrated to something else, better. The joy of the left free will be found in the other hand, next to someone else. Nothing is wasted, quite the reverse. What can be more beautiful than to hear the beloved person to freely choose to go voluntarily on the same road with you?