5 REASONS WHY THERE WAS NEVER AN “US”.

Let’s face it, at some point in our lives there’s always that special someone we are so ready to give the whole world with, foolish right? Try to recall the last time you looked at someone so deep that you begged time to stop just for you to have a glimpse of his smile, that moment when you held his hand as if it’s going to be the last. Whenever he looks at you, you just feel this electric rush in your body, that moment wherein you need to catch your breath because he is very calm, resting his head on your shoulder. We all have reasons why we fall in love, but then again we are living in reality and not some Nicholas Sparks novel. Here are 5 reasons why there was never an “US”.

1. I’M JUST YOUR OPTION.
   Ouch! Yes love, that’s the truth! Not all the time you get what you want or you get what you hoped for. Sometimes you just have to accept the reality that he/she is not that committed to you. Yes, both of you enjoy each other’s company and even use pet names like Babe, Sweetie, Hun, Love and all that cheesy stuff but at the end of the day you don’t really LABEL what you have, you are just one of his/her options. We always want that someone wherein we know where we stand in their lives—KNOW YOUR WORTH.

2. DOESN’T HAVE ANY SENSE OF PRIORITY.
   “Sorry, I can’t make it tonight I have a game to catch.” “Can I take a rain check? My friends are coming over.” “I’ll make it up to you, I promise.” We all have different lives to live I get that, Okay. But you don’t expect me to always understand you just because I’m not on top of your priorities. It’s not about me being selfish but you have to understand that in a relationship both parties should exert effort. You don’t call it relationship if there’s only one person who works things out, because if that’s the case I would then call it “RELATIONSHIT”. If you want “US” then you gotta know your PRIORITIES.

3. WE’RE NOT LOOKING AT THE SAME DIRECTION.
   “YOU’VE ALREADY MADE PLANS AND I’M NOT PART OF IT.” It’s hard to be in a relationship if both of you weren’t on the same boat. You don’t expect a Parrot flying with an Eagle nor a cat hanging out with a mouse, that’s RIDICULOUS. If you want “US” then we need to listen and understand each other and start living our dreams AS ONE. “Love does not consist in gazing at each other, but in looking outward together in the same direction.” – Antoine de Saint-Exupery

4. THREE WORDS EIGHT LETTERS SAY IT AND I’M YOURS.
   Gawd! Just say it, say the words “I LOVE YOU”. But wait, what if reasons 1, 2 and 3 are right. No, I don’t wanna say it, he should say it first. REJECTION, yup, everyone hates that word, I guess we’re both afraid to say the words “I Love You.” Question is, if you’re not going to take that risk, who would? They say “actions speak louder than words, but sometimes it’s those very words that determine what action you should take.” Good luck in figuring that out.

5. WE HAVEN’T FOUND THE RIGHT REASONS YET
   Maybe the “US” you’re looking for is not meant today. If two people are meant for each other, eventually they’ll find their way back. Don’t stress yourself too much, if things are meant to be it will be. He might not have found the right reasons yet but hopefully one day he will. Remember, you are special. You deserve someone who would move mountains just to be with you. He, liking you is different from him doing everything just to keep you, always keep that in mind.