Conflict exists in relationships when people don't listen to each other, he said. Four qualities that are fundamental to a healthy, happy relationship are compassion, which leads to caring; understanding, which leads to knowing; respect that allows for safety in the discussion; and empathy, which results in connection.
Relationship are made up of lots and lots of drama's. In other words,there is no relationship without drama or ups and downs.So I introduce the word "Tolerance". The key factor to a perfect relationship.
What is Tolerance?
Tolerance is simply the ability to endure. It's the practice of patience, an acceptance of one's belief, opinions or a lack of bigotry (Intolerance or prejudice, especially religious or racial; Discrimination).
Relationships can be frustrating, tiring, disturbing and sometimes causes fatigue which leads to you been stressed out.
The secret of fighting frustration and stress is "Tolerance". If you don't tolerate the relationship would turn into a complete drama; remember my formal post about the dangers of letting Drama into our Relationship.
You notice that there are lots of disadvantages of having drama in our relationship one major one is the relationship turns "sour".
If you don't learn to tolerate it can cause us to lose not only our relationship but our friends too!!...
Do you agree with me on this one?
Tolerance is an essential weapon to enabling your relationship go far or be a peaceful and loving one.
It fight drama like?
1 Gossip 2 Lying 3 Cheating
4 Physical fighting 5 Verbal Fighting... E.t.c
At times when we are been offended by our partner or friends or people generally, we want to tell at the person, exchange words or even fight but all ain't what we should be doing cause we only create enimity between we and other people including our partner.
When we learn to tolerate alot of changes would occur in our relationship. For example: you as a man often quarrel with your woman and she always fights back but the moment she stops your feelings/Emotion's towards her would change because she acts humble and because of your humanly Emotion you two would be back together.
So I urge each and everyone one of us to exercise or partake in tolerating our spouse or people around us and we'll see changes and favours would be received.
Remember Rome wasn't built in a day. So as Different folks, Different Problem, and no Perfect relationship.
If you say your relationship is perfect then check well one of you is playing each other for a fool.
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