TO THE WIDOWS MATURED SINGLES, SINGLE MOTHERS DIVORCED..Part 3.
If you fall into any of this quadrant, there are 5 kinds of men you should NOT MARRY. Remember, all eyes are on you. Your issue about husband has raised a lot of concern, therefore you must be extra careful.
1: NEVER MARRY A GUY YOU CAN NOT PACIFY:
If you notice any man which when he gets angry and you show up but yet he doesn't care. You pleaded with him yet was defiant. Beware of such man.
You have just been helped by God to see who he is really. Your future husband should have some respect for your presence anywhere and anytime.
2: NEVER MARRY A GUY WHO LIVES ON YOU WHO ALWAYS ASK YOU FOR MONEY.
That guy is an adult for God sake. A man without job has no moral right to ask for marriage. Let him go and work first and earn a living.
Beware of gold diggers. Beware of vultures. Money matter is a serious issue you can use to measure the overall intention of a man.
Stop chasing a man and entice him with money. You will cry!!!! Even if the guy has good intentions; such equation will not work when the man who is supposed to be the chaser now becomes the chased.
Some ladies went as far as sponsoring the wedding. Put money in the guy's pocket. You will wake up one day and see the note he left behind. Some ladies never lived to tell their story.
In the beginning, it was not so. God made the man as the chaser and the woman, the chased.
3: NEVER MARRY A MAN YOU PITY OR THE MAN WHO PITIED YOU. MARRY A MAN YOU LOVE AND THAT LOVES YOU.
Sentiments can't work in marriage because its not a weekend affair. Its a lifetime deal..Therefore, never marry out of pity. There is a place of assisting each other. There is a place of affection. Balance it.
4: NEVER MARRY A GUY WHO COMPLAINS TOO MUCH.
If you notice a guy who will not commend you when dress well but he is the first to complain anytime your dressing is not on point; run away from him.
If he complained about your brothers, sisters, uncles, mum or your Daddy and your loved ones before he marries you; then what will he do after marriage?
5: IT DOES NOT MATTER HOW INTELLIGENT THIS GUY; NEVER MARRY A MAN WHO ALWAYS CAN'T TAKE YOUR COUNSEL BUT LOVES TO FIX YOU.