WHY FRIENDS OF DIFERENT SEX CAN’T BE CLOSE OR BE ON ONE BED?
Hummm! I think that’s a lovely heading which most people will like to hear or talk about too..
Now here's the question: why man and woman or a boy and a girl that are just friends can’t sleep in one room or probably on the same bed *that are not in relationship or anything at all.
Opinion answer;
Firstly, on a general note of reading only the topic, so many thought would have come to your mind like the following;
· They can’t, if there is no “trust” between them
· The guy or girl can do something nasty at night
· There can be temptation for them to have sex at night
· Fantasy will make them do things unthought-of
· The trusted friend before can turn to love relationship.
· It’s not normal for them and so on like that…..
So upon all this different kind of thought, majority of humans won’t support while some won’t take it as anything. Well, I tell you for something like this, trust and a good bonded friendship can only do this, “It’s normal’ and is only we that attach unnecessarily meaning to it.
Not everybody can do this but people do it. Guys like me!! Whoa…! Well I can, cos am a discipline not flirty and I attach no meaning to it. It’s when you attach no meaning to this kind of a thing is when you feel free to partake such a thing. I don’t really speak with girls though am “shy”, but I play with them well, they even don’t expect me playing with them as if am playing with my guys but uhmm! uhmm! I don’t say we sleep together hey hey! Stop! This sh**t, this topic ain’t for me, so am not talking about me here.
Moreover, in old days, our fathers and grand fathers do this coz their world wasn’t corrupt like ours now ….. yeah! ! I say corrupt! Because now we live a sexy world where sexy things and models are even advertise in media to corrupt our youth of adolescence but in the century of our great successors they live a good friendship life which we don’t follow.
In conclusive, girls and guys that really trust and believe in their friendship can, not even can… hey!.. they do it and it can be for long until they have their settled life.
Guys and girls play, sleep together likewise girls and girls. So there is nothing bad for a guy and a girl to do same. God created us as humans together from Adam and Eve stage.
So Don’t push it!!!! To be continued …..more…..
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