Probably at first I would appreciate the guy for his maturity that he takes to handle that issue in first place, because am sure if the lady is aware that the guy sent money for such treatment in the first instance, that might also break the relationship because the lady would think the guy actually tell the lady to abort the pregnancy and the guy might ask her to do so, if it happens to her.

But for the friend who turn to the news caster who delivered unsent news to various quarters. I have said this many time never trust any friends, just put your trust in God, limit whatever secret you want to tell them also. That is how human being are and don't be surprised.

Am imploring you to find the possible way and best time to sit the lady down, probably you know what can make the lady be happy because you have known her a while, I think from that angle you will be able to get her listen to whatever you want her to listening to and hopefully she would listen to your explanation. And don't be hard on her just take it easy with her because she would be imagining like she is the one the stuff happened to.

Hive account@oluwatobiloba, keep doing wonderful things for people, may God help you through in all your endeavors in life too.