It is a beautiful Saturday morning over here in Nigeria and I want to say good morning to everyone in the three major languages spoken in Nigeria: the Yoruba's say Ekaroo or ekuojumo, the Hausa's say inakwana and the Igbo's say Ibolachi.
To everyone on the show this morning, I greet you in the Nigerian way and I welcome you to another great episode of let's talk about it with .
There is so much to talk about on relationship issues and I am just really happy that I started this show, I know that the show will get better by God's grace, we will take it to another level and then another level with the help of supportive and great individuals on the platform.
So, let's get straight to business, but before then, as usual I will like to give a report on the last topic discussed on the show.
Report From The Previous Episode.
I had to call again to meet with the cute young lady we talked about last week and we had a deep conversation, I told her about the advice given by experts and we had a long chat.
I was glad that she was able to smile again at the end of our conversation, so I quickly added that she can always talk to me if there was anything she wanted to talk about.
The Mind-blowing Gist For This Week.
For this week's episode I have a good looking young man around who needs advice from the amazing people who are always ready to help. So I will allow him speak for himself as we read every details.
I am a steemian but I will like my identity to be hidden for some reasons but I hope that I will be able to get help on this platform as well just the same way I have seen others get help.
I have a very close female friend whose name I will not mention, we have been friends right from our university days, I was in my second year and she was in her first year then, so I was her school father and we even became more close as we could tell each other our little secrets.
Sometimes, when I have issues with my girlfriend, she is someone I always talk to and even though she was caring, loving, and understanding, I was always harsh on her whenever she has any issue with my girlfriend because even if I knew that my girlfriend was at fault, I knew that I had to support her and create the boundary between my lover and my friend.
Right now, I realized that things are getting really different because we have been staying in the same environment for sometime and that was when I realized that she had a thing for me, she always felt safe and comfortable around me, I also discovered that she had a crush on me even as I dated a girl after the other.
I decided to go into a relationship with her after getting advice from friends.
We were in a relationship for one week and it was not very smooth because we always had issues and the reason for that is because she had a lot of guys coming around her and I don't usually have ladies around because I like to stay indoors .
So, her phone keeps ringing all the time with calls and messages from different guys even while she is with me and this got me really jealous so I decided to pull out a prank to see if she really loves me.
I pretended as if I wanted to see someone else and this made her really upset, it was at this point that she told me how angry she was about the fact that I can't see how much she loves me and she just wants to be with me and I just keep misbehaving.
I was happy the little prank worked and we were able to sit and talk about what we wanted and we drew out a reasonable conclusion. I apologized for everything and she said she had forgiven me.
After that, she travelled for two weeks and she told me she was going to sleep over at a guy's place who was her friend for a day before she gets to where she was going, but I found out that she was with the guy for a week, she didn't give a call, not a message and so I decided to also keep to myself without calling.
When she got back,I knew that I had to end things with her and so I ended the relationship with her and she said it was fine.
She moved on and she got herself another guy, after sometime I got myself another lady as well because I wanted the void of loneliness filled, I wanted to have someone by my side.
But, the problem remained that, she said I was acting strange and I was giving her attitude and to me I just needed some space.
I see her, we laugh, we play but I know she is not happy with me.
I don't know what to do or how to balance things, it looks as if she is not happy in her new relationship and she wants me back, I want her happy as well but I don't know what to do or the next step to take, because the whole situation looks confusing right now.
, I want to say thank you for creating a show like this and I hope that I can get help as well.
Moderator's Remark.
It is another Saturday and it is another great day to help someone who needs help based on relationship issues and I trust that there are very intelligent individuals on this amazing platform who are always ready to assist.
I am counting on God and I am counting on you and I mean you, to make today's episode of let's talk about it with another successful one.
Thank you for always being there, because there is no show without you. Thank you very much.
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