WOW! that is a lot of drivel. not just in the article but the comments too.

I am/was a cheater, so no holds barred there. my wife and i survived, but lets face it, Monogomy is an atiquated notion. Polyamory, Swinging, Open relationships, that is the future. We went through a long period of discovery and adjustment, and believe that if more couples had open or swinging relationships there would be a lot less divorce.

Separate sex from intimacy, the act from love, and you will have a much richer, open and truly loving union.