A soul mate is not the one as you watch on movies that you start falling in love at the first glance you see him/her!
But it’s something different which relates to the better understanding of one another and for this you need to be open to each other and discuss about the feelings or the likes and dislikes- pretty many such things which you might not have with your friends.
There are a few signs I have noted down about your soul mate where you can analyze for yourself whether he’s your soul mate or just a high intensity affair:
Just a cheat or argue
This is a high intensity affair which many of us think it to be not- but maybe you’ll realize one day after you stop tolerating it.
A high intensity is not just always yelling at each other or just getting angry on one another but it also takes up to a level that it would be uncontrollable for both of you!
So, why does this grow up- maybe if it had been a petty issue- it wouldn’t grow up so much, but then what is it about?
It’s usually an argument or cheat and most of the times people try to just ignore it to keep up their relation move smoothly.
Someone has told you both – that you shouldn’t be together
In some situations when you’re in danger or put yourself too much into it- your friends come up to you and ask for you to leave the guy you’re indulged with, this makes a lot of sense and hence people such as your friends, you feel like listening to!
These people are just who care for your well being and don’t prefer any harm to cause you
You’ve nothing in common with him
If you’re truly honest to yourself and then you feel that you have nothing in common with him except for sex- your move now, to just get up and let go!
Maybe things like his favorite TV show or the food or something crazy about him- you may not like and you feel that you don’t have a single thing to say for you to have common with him!
And you seriously believe that soul mates should have something common so that they can achieve high goals in life then this is the best time for you to leave him!
Depends on the quality of love you have!
If you love him because he has a Ferrari and all such cool stuff- maybe he’s a tall and handsome guy then please just avoid such relationships for a long term. If you can’t just come up with a real reason or something related to his personality then it’s just a lie of love you’re trying to play with him and yourself. Also, this may hurt you if you continue with him on a long term relation!
He likes you to be as he wishes you to be
Every guy wishes his girlfriend to be the exact as his dream girl but in practical it never is possible. But, most of the times people are just bullied and they start falling for someone who’s not even made for you! Ok- not a problem, you like him but then what?
Is he trying to change you or trying to advise you to be the exact as he wishes you to be.
But, just answer me this question before listening to him- didn’t he know? How were you before he started in relation with you?
Or does he wish you to be exactly like his dream girl so that he can start loving you!
Just bugger him away and start with a new life instead!
Long term relationship is merely impossible for you two!
When we speak about a long term relationship then it includes various other factors such as kids, workplace and so on!
This you need to sit down and think and come to a decision but then If you two have different opinions and you both aren’t able to sacrifice your wishes then it may turn down for you to be a big problem in the near future. So, in realistic- this is merely impossible for you two to stand in a long term relationship!