A few days ago, Tanya Chua concert on the romance of a couple of gay love romance, touching vows, lovers eyes flowing love, the audience and the screen in front of us, are touched on such a scene was red The eyes, that moment, should be the true meaning of "love regardless of gender", admire their bravery, but also to find happiness in two people feel happy.
In Taiwan, which is relatively open, we can see many examples of blessing due to openness. In fact, those gay and lesbian friends who are always bright and charming around me have many struggles along the way. Today, they and us Share a few real stories, the original generous love and be loved, it has been such a rare thing.
#1
"In the military, you must pretend that girl girlfriends are my girlfriend."
In Taiwan, every boy has to go through a period of compulsory military service. In almost all the boys' forces, he has never shy away from his sexual orientation. In order to integrate into the community, he has to hold a photograph of his girlfriend girl friends and do Out of camouflage: "When you were young, you were bullied by the more male students in the class, and I had to pretend I had a very gorgeous girlfriend before they felt like I was Gay."
And he must cooperate with "different men" to chat with his girlfriend's bed Zi Mi, even if always easy to use the story of the sister perfunctory, but this pretending to make him quite uncomfortable, forced by the military atmosphere, so he can not Do not do this: "In fact, these conversations made me very uncomfortable, but if I admit that I like boys, I will only be marginalized and no one dares to be my friend." I asked C, would I feel such a grievance? He said: "From childhood to age, I am used to it and I like being a boy very happy. Only sometimes, I can not tell others too generously. "
#2
"To like boys is something more unforgivable than cheating."
It is always the day and night and we show off the history of love L, frankly I have experienced a period of sexual impact. "In fact, when I was young, I felt more about boys, but society told us that it was right to like girls, and I also used to deal with girls." They had a close-knit act, but this further contact made him bear a great evil Sense: "It was a nightmare. I did it entirely by instinctual instinct. After that, I only felt I would not want to have another one, but I did not want to hurt the girl again."
Although he was determined by his own heart, he was also confessing sexuality with the girl, leaving him at that time to leave her body together and her girlfriend's world collapsed, and L had a long time to feel disgusted with her : " Her Heartbreak makes me think that being a boy is a more unforgivable thing to do than cheating. "
#3
"Mom wants me to get married, but you can not."
Has a big boy-like appearance, but also both girls delicate mind Z, has always been my favorite girl girlfriends, since the sensible, she was very sure that she likes the girl, but the feelings along the sidelines pain, I was aside But can only listen to comfort, nothing can do. " She told me that if you are a boy, what should I say? " She dried up a bottle of beer, seemingly mundane, but full of disheartening helplessness.
Z considerate, take care of girls in every possible way, they come in with the same, but also as a friend walked many cities together, but just as he prepares to confessional, received each other's solution: " My mother wants me to marry, but I can not help but ask: "Have you ever thought of surgery?" " I agree with my gender, I like being a girl, I just have to be male if I can not. " Characteristics, to make loved ones dare to love me, I can give it a try. "I also like the present Z, but looking at the pain of her, can not help but think, in this now so advanced society," free lover "how Still so difficult one thing?
#4
"Only be an underground lover forever, because I am a boy."
Hearty and humorous V, has been quite popular in the circle of friends, he is very proud of the gay identity in the gay circle is also very popular, love always go hand in hand until the encounter of this "different male", let him For the first time thought of being a girl. Walking on the road can not be hand in front of friends can only be friends, as long as the public a little wanted to close, go home is difficult to clean up the quarrel.
" I can only be a local lover ," and often laughs at the V I put in his hand, full of helplessness: "But I can not blame him. This is the way society is. If he is relieved, I would rather be happy V, laughed loudly, but I was overwhelmed with him and began to blame my friend for being brave. V suddenly looked at me in silence and said, " I do not want to be a girl at all, but if it is only For a gender title, you can be together, maybe when a girl like you is not bad? "
These stories, are true to their girlfriends in the surrounding who constantly happen, perhaps, a few days ago Tanya Chua concert, the proposal of sweethearts sweetheart, people will be moved to tears, in addition to being happy for them, There are also those who are still struggling with love for those who feel bad. I hope everyone can be happy, but some people are even limited by the invisible framework of expressing love.
It is a happy thing to love and love.