We are all humans and are bound to be in one relationship or the other, the way we are created or let me say wired is to associate with one another.
Even in the story of creation, a woman called Eve was created in order that Adam will not exist alone. This means at some stages in life, we are to be in relationship with the opposite sex. Nature wants it so.
It is normal when one feels like having someone to date and have a close relationship with. Now, I must be clear about somethings, this is not mainly about copulation! I am referring to a real relationship, a romantic and deep one. A relationship that involves both parties coming clean and staying true to each other, no matter the odds.
Relationship is a responsibility on its own, especially the dating type. The two people involved are usually of different backgrounds, opinions, upbringings and many more things. This is a pointer that it is not for everyone, the truth is that some set of people should not be thinking of getting into. There are some qualities that if found in you, you are supposed to stay away and work on yourself first.
Listed some of them:
• Low self-esteem:
Self-esteem simply means a feeling of pride in yourself, if you are not proud of yourself do not get involved. Too much of everything is bad, having a bit of pride in yourself is good. You would need it a lot in your relationship or else you keep cutting a frustrated figure.
• Overambitious:
If you have a picture of how an ideal relationship is in your head and you are expecting everything to be exactly as you have pictured, please do away with it before involving someone else’s daughter. A relationship is not meant for fantasies, it is for two people making conscious effort to make things happen.
• Needy and greedy:
There are some set of people that always accept, all they think of is what they are getting and not what they are giving out. You need to think again before involving yourself if you are in this category of people.
• Narcissistic:
This set are those that are involved with themselves, I am referring to those who love themselves to a point where everyone else is considered an intruder. People like that would not be willing to share their space, which is what relationship is about.
• Frequent breakups:
Check yourself well, if you are full of breakups it means there is a particular thing that needs checking in your life. It might be down to immaturity because jumping from one failed relationship to another depicts that.
This does not mean people with these qualities so to speak should not be involved in a relationship, it means they have to work on themselves. You cannot conceal it for long, relationship would expose them.
