It is another beautiful day, hope you all are doing great, going into relationship talk today, have to do this once in a while.
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It is now a trending thing mostly when it come to relationships aspect and mostly the male are now afraid to go into relationship/courtship and also having same thinking that most female engage in relationships all because of money or been taking care by the male partner by all means, this actually brought up today discussion, should relationship be an asset or just a liability/burden to the opposite sex.
I was checking through Facebook today when I came across a post
Marriage/relationship is a partnership commitment or a parasitic relationship
This happen mostly among the female gender (not criticizing), if a guy can't do this or that for you, he is not a man irrespective of his financial status. Instead of staying with him, providing ideas to build him up, helping in but it is the other way round. You will be hearing "baby come and take me out", let go shopping, baby I need that, baby am broke and so on. You will never hear them saying how far is your business going, what are your plan for the future, how can I be of help to you in building you up financially.
Let just say the case should be reverse and the male start asking for all this, how will most feeling. Males want better thing too but all this attitude mostly likely lead to breakup or push the male partner to the extent of doing what he doesn't want to do. Can't blame most guys, they do illegal things just because they want to satisfy their partners and eventually bear the consequence.
This is 2019, lot of things should change. Be an asset to your partner and not a liability. Guys tend to stick and appreciate female who bring values to their life.