(1) The girl you love deserves you texting
back something other than “Ok” when
she asks if you want to meet her for
dinner after work. Don’t do that. If you
want to meet her for dinner after work,
you know you feel more than just an
“Ok.” You feel a “Yes please,”
“Definitely,” or even a “Sure.” It doesn’t
take any more time or effort. The girl you
love deserves more than an “Ok.”
(2) The girl you love deserves a vacation,
but not a vacation that she has to plan.
She deserves someone who will plan it
for her. She deserves not to think a thing
about how you guys are going to get
there, what you guys are going to do, and
how you guys are going to do it. The girl
you love plans practically everything you
two do together during your “real
lives” (without complaint, because she
loves you — but that doesn’t mean the
responsibility isn’t a burden sometimes),
and she deserves just as much from you, too.
(3) The girl you love deserves to be on
your team. She deserves to be on your side. She deserves more benefit of the
doubt than anyone else in your life. It’s
the girl you love and you against the
world, and she deserves for you to never
forget that.
(4) The girl you love deserves to know
what you’re thinking. You’re not
obligated to explain yourself to anyone
else, but if you won’t try to communicate
how you feel to the girl you love, then
maybe you don’t deserve her love. The girl you love deserves that
communication reserved only for her,
because she’s the only person in the
world who is responsible enough to handle it.
(5) The girl you love deserves to take care of you. She deserves to hear your problems with work. She deserves to hear your insecurities, your failures, your
shortcomings. The girl you love deserves
to help you, because that’s why you
chose her. The girl you love is the only
one who’s good enough to care for you.
(6) The girl you love deserves time with
her friends, and screw you if you don’t think so. She deserves happy hour after
work, company parties for employees
only, and drinks with old college friends
who are in town for the weekend.
(7) The girl you love deserves to be able
to show her quirks in front of you. She
deserves to carry around that giant bag that makes it so it takes five minutes to find anything. She deserves to somehow
get a small pebble stuck in her shoe
approximately every 15 minutes and
make you stop for her so she can take off her shoe and shake it out. She deserves to
always steal your phone charger, and still, somehow, always have a really low battery life on her phone.
(8) The girl you love deserves to take a
longer time to get ready to go out than
you. She deserves the time to plan for
going out the way she is comfortable with. Remember — it’s not just you who wants to have a good time.
(9) The girl you love deserves your
reassurance that things are strictly
platonic with your Female-friend who you sometimes hang out with. It isn’t unreasonable for her to get at least a little
uncomfortable if you regularly hang out with an attractive female friend — and
what’s the harm? You love her, so you
want her to feel secure. The girl you love deserves this security.
(10) The girl you love deserves the kind of love that’s only available to one person at a time (her). No one else deserves the
love she deserves. No one else deserves
the texts you send her. And no one else
deserves the amount of attention you give her. That’s why you love her in the first place.
(11) The girl you love deserves to see you act in ways you’d never let anyone other
than her see. She deserves to hear things you’d never say in front of other people.
She deserves the good, the bad, and the ugly things you’re too scared to show to your coworkers, course mates, your friends, even your family. The girl you love deserves to see you.
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