I saw a recent photo of one of my Facebook friends who was parading herself as a Slay Queen just a few years back and this really got me thinking...
I want you to note this:
A woman peaks in her early twenties. Always keep that in mind!
A woman PEAKS in her early twenties. No matter how hot or cute you think you are right now, your beauty and attractiveness will always go down after that. Unless you exercise and take care of yourself, which only a few women do.
A lot of women are delusional about the fact that a man should love them for what's inside. So after a few years, they just become lazy and now their youth is not there to sustain their beauty.
Know this: for a man, visual is very important - regardless of how much he loves you. So don't hide behind the fact that you've had kids. Or that it's just natural to be less attractive as you grow older.
Maybe you should take an example from older women around you who have exercised pretty much all their life and were determined to still lose pounds after having babies…
I know a couple of women who don't plan to be less attractive as they grow older. They are determined to look their best, regardless of their age and what it takes. Those are the kind of women you should draw inspiration from.
Have an amazing day!
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Acknowledgement: Michael N. Michael