Does your partner have no interest in you?

Have you ever been in a relationship in which your partner had no interest in you?

Sure, your partner may ask you lots of questions about your day, what you're thinking, what you're doing...

They may even seem like they care.

But when your answers don't relate to them, when your thoughts are of something other than them, when your actions in no seeming way benefit them, watch their eyes glaze over, watch them shrug, watch them ask themselves, why are they telling me this?

If you've found yourself with such a partner, or, indeed, if you find yourself with one now, you're dating a narcissist.

Now, there's a lot of fun to be had in dating a narcissist.

They tend to dress well. They keep themselves in shape. That can prattle on about themselves for hours, ensuring that there's never a lull in conversation - if such one way communication can be referred to as conversing.

But do they really care about you?

And what happens when you want to think or do something that does not directly benefit them?

There's only so much time you can spend entirely fixated on another person without allowing yourself to become stagnant and unfulfilled.

So, enjoy your time with a narcissist - rays of sunshine as they tend to be...

But be grateful when they move on to find other servants, and pay some overdue attention to yourself.