You should have been clear all the way through man. Never ever make a woman clean your house even if its clean. You were sending her the wrong message. You should have just dated her - took her out and ask what she likes and do that with her (but only if you like it). You just pushed her away making her clean your place even if its clean. It's like saying - I like you and this is what you'll be doing if you become my gal - which smart looking pretty woman like that would like it? It's like looking down on her man.
I feel for you and I hope you catch the next one pretty soon. Just go straight to the point, date the girl, pay the 1st date, flirt and score a kiss. But hey, always be a gentleman and a go getter. You should watch The Millionaire Matchmaker - that woman gives good advice- she really does. Good luck.
RE: My Last Date With an American