No, dating is for the top 10% of guys.

The bottom 50% of men get shit on the worst, then the bottom 20% of women are next on the shit on hierarchy, then the 30% middle/average men come next in the hierarchy (may get lucky but most likely largely struggle and can't find a good partner). Then comes the 2nd tier of men who are not high value men, but almost. They are ranked in the 10-20% of men. They have it okay with dating, but not nearly as easy as the top 80% of women.

...but dating in 2022 is really for the top 10% men.

They are the ones that all the girls fight over. 80% of women are only really focused on about 10-20% of the guys available. In many cases average women don't consider average men on the same level since they are hypergamous.

So the pecking order of who benefits the most from modern dating:

• Top 10% men (can get whatever they want, they have the pick of the litter)
• Top 80% women (all fighting over the same (10-20% men which definitely gives the advantage to those fewer, more scarce men. Some of these women will end up lonely and single by the time they are 40 because their standards are too high and unrealistic and the wall hits them quicker than a wedding proposal does)
• Top 10-20% of men (can usually find a wife, but may take time). They are borderline between high value and average men.
• 30% average men (who usually struggle, as most women don't allow them to qualify)
• Bottom 20% women
• Bottom 50% men. (Between 33-40% of men today are either virgins or haven't had sex in years. These people are pretty much invisible in the dating world and nobody mentions them much)

So, modern dating is best for the top 10% high value men who get whatever they want, and worst for the 50% bottom men. The biggest downside for women is that they might not take up a good guy while they are at the youthful peak when most high quality males are looking for a suitable wife and missing out on a great life.

They will of course justify not having a high value man by acting like they are happy today, but everyone who knows, knows that they would be much happier with a guy more in-line with their wants and needs and attraction and with someone who can give them whatever life they want without having to worry. That's why everyone wants the high value man after all, because they take care of their women to the ninth degree.

High value guys are extremely rare, and women who want high value men are almost endless. This means many women pass up average guys (many who would make great partners) for the false dream of prince charming, just to realize that they never qualified for a prince charming (kind, attractive, wealthy, and loyal man). After all it's a numbers game. If there are only 1 million high value men, and 100 million women chasing those 1 million high value men, 99 million women are being delusional and will lose that competition (and it is a competition, don't fool yourself).

This is why high value men today are the kings of the modern dating jungle. Modern dating will continue to give the top 10% men everything they want, while shitting on the bottom half of men who are usually really nice guys, but not good enough for the standards of many women today who seek high value men (and for good reason).

Yes, I believe it's imperative that women have high standards and seek out high value men as that will give them the best life. Don't be mad at women for the way the world works, it's actually a form of Darwinism and survival of the fittest for men, as is healthy for evolution.