I know when we first start dating/talking to someone ,we tend to get so excited! You know when you get that rush and you feel nervous,happy ,confused and ecstatic all at the same time? Yes,that feeling!You may have been in a relationship for a while and your in love . Whatever your situation is nobody deserves to get mistreated by their significant other and/or themselves. Usually, things start off on a great note and then things change. People tend to start showing their true colors by lying,disrespecting you or just not putting in same amount of effort as they did before with communication,affection and etc, cheating, using you and more.
Darling first thing first, why are you stressing over a person that can’t even check to make sure your’e alright half of the time?You deserve better than that! Why stress over a person that wouldn’t do the same for you? Why keep dealing with someone that can lie to you and look you in your face and feel nothing while doing so? Why stay with a person that cheated on you/hurt you because they felt you weren’t enough for them?When in reality you are more than enough for them,in fact your too much for them? Stop mistreating yourself holding on to the person that mistreats you.Your’e only torturing yourself.
Regardless of your feelings towards a person that keeps hurting you ,if you continue to build on a broken platform…what kind of foundation are you building?Not a stable one that’s for sure! If you feel strongly about a person and you haven’t went out of your way to hurt them ,why do you deserve/accept to be hurt?
It’s a true fact that some of us get caught up with the infatuation of being with someone. Nobody really wants to be alone but baby,that doesn’t mean settle for less than what you deserve!!!
There are no mistakes,everything is intended.
You have to be brave and get out there and find love within yourself to be able to understand your worth. Maybe, you can even reinvent yourself. Also,your obviously use to talking to this person everyday,which means you have to replace that time with something else like the gym,a job,yoga,zumba,swimming or something that interests you.Stay busy and remind yourself that when someone wants you and loves you…you shouldn’t have to force them to do right by you. You would have to create a new schedule for yourself and stick to it for 21 days to form a habit.
I know its easier said than done when it’s time to close the chapter on a person and write a new one but realize that you don’t have to settle and you deserve the best of the best! In the meantime on waiting on your own version of Mr.perfect/Ms.Perfect….work on yourself and those insecurities and issues that you have when it comes to dating and not wanting to be alone. Be enough for yourself darling so when the right person comes along….they’ll know your more than they could ever imagine having to love!