Do you want to know what contributes to a successful relationship? Keep reading and I will help you understand a few basic things.
Introduction
You've always wondered what makes a relationship work. Frankly these days there are so many articles, so many gurus telling you so many different things. I'm no one. I'm just another human being who's penny has suddenly dropped and things have made sense. I'm hoping you can gain some value from this. It's true for all kinds of relationships. Not just for lovers.
Fact is that there are just 2 things that form the foundation of any relationship. You may already know this.
Femininity And Masculinity
In any healthy and intimate relationship, there MUST be a balance between feminine and masculine energy. There are always these 2 components, nothing more. If there is a less of something or more, the relationship will start suffering.
Now I don't mean it has to always be a man and a woman. This applies to two men, two women as well. Look carefully, there will always be one who is more masculine and one who is more feminine.
What does it mean to be feminine?
Before you get your horns out, this doesnt mean slaving away in the kitchen. Femininity means being someone who is more emotional, more open to giving and receiving. Someone who follows more than leads, more 'girly' in ways.
A person with feminine energy looks to the person with masculine energy to be strong, decide, make plans and guide the relationship.
Now you may not agree with me but if you pay attention, you will see that I'm not wrong. It's proven by science as well.
What does it mean to be masculine?
Masculinity means to be a leader, to lead the way, to make plans, to decide, to guide. To know that you're the mountain and nothing can move you. That kind of strength is what attracts people, it's what attracts people with feminine energy. There is ALWAYS going to be someone who is more masculine in ANY relationship.
What does all this mean?
This means that there will always be two elements in any relationship. You cannot have two masculine people or two people with feminine energy. It won't work. There has to be a sexual polarity
If the person with masculine energy gets flaky, not strong, not sure of themselves, they lack confidence and just generally aren't able to decide, then it's not coming across as attractive. I personally wouldn't want to be around someone whos like that. Would you?
In relationships, the energy also changes. The masculine person can turn feminine and the feminine can turn into masculine but it may not necessarily be their natural state. It could be in case of an emergency, an event that has caused the tables to turn, however, note, that there always has to be someone in each element.
Look at yourself and leave a comment below and tell me which energy you possess?
I personally have more masculine energy than feminine and I'm a woman. There is a reason I don't get along with people who are the same as me, especially if its in romantic relationships.
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