Yes it was for Israel, so I don't know if He ever wanted us to have leaders or he gave them because it's what we want. I'm a christian anarchist, and honestly I find they go hand in hand. :) There have been times he put a stop to it and still got called evil. Noahs ark, he let the"good" family survive while killing the "bad" people, gets called evil. Or how when He first created humans we were perfect and not sinful, and he told us not the eat the forbidden fruits. He didn't want us to live in sin like this, but He gets called evil for making that rule to prevent it because it was 'real free will'... So they way I see it, we chose this life, and it is short. We will all suffer, and many things will not seem fair, but God offers us all salvation so we don't have to live like this forever. That's how he puts a stop to it. :) I think about them too, you're not alone.