I am not a judge. But after i have waited for a period of time ,praying and fasting for a life partner i got the one i am married to. But i did not wait to do the church solemnisation before having sexual intercourse . As a child of God the bible is our standard, not sentement. If the bible is against it then it is a SIN. We must not water down God's standard. There is no small sin or big sin. We must learn to trust God to do whatever He says He will do. With God nothing is impossible. He is too faithful to fail.
It is menopause not meno stop.. Sarah, & Elizabeth were stricken in age.and it had ceased to be with them according the manner of women.
The church should teach her members how to have faith in God.