i always pre judge people that's why i never get into trouble,okay sometimes people do change,but don't bet on that happening because of you.its best to just take people as they are,rather than what they could be.don't start dating someone thinking you can change them GET OUT OF THAT RELATIONSHIP BEFORE YOU WASTE 4 YEARS AND THEY STILL HAVEN'T CHANGED ,
you want someone to love you for you?why not offer the same