ARE YOU COOL WHEN PEOPLE CRITICIZE YOU IN LIFE ?
THERE is a concept called sledging in cricket,where the opponent team comes and giver bad words to the batsman. BAD words ! THEY try to distract them and take their focus away. ONE thing that SACHIN is adored for,in the history of cricket is-sledging hasn't bothered him. THIS man is cool. ARE you cool ? WHEN people do sledging against you in the game of life,are you cool ? or you loose your cool ? THERE will always be people who are out of control. CAN you stop a guy from criticizing you ? CAN you stop opponent team from sledging ? . YOU can do nothing about it. ITS called ,things are out of our control. PEOPLE are out of our control sometimes. ARE situations in your control many times ? NO . THE guy who was batting,was expecting an IN-SWING ball and that's what the bowler bowled and one gush of wind and in-swing becomes an out-swing and he is caught out. A lot of things,situations , people,are just out of control. HOW many of you think question paper is in your control ? AND when things go wild,you know what happens with us ? its makes us react and foam out !we start reacting like soda-can . THE questions is,do you want to be a soda-can or a bottle of water ? AND i am sure ,a lot of us would say ,under pressure we react like soda!" AND thus in our life we will always have a stimulus and we can choose to respond because between the stimulus and response is our choice. A great personalty is not born in the maternity ward. A great personality is born by the choices that one makes. AND therefore when there are all kinds of stimuli, we have to learn how to respond. IF you are not strong spiritually or culturally,it is impossible !I always says DON'T ASK THE QUESTION WHY ? why did this happen to me? ASK the question how? how should i deal with it ? learn this masterstroke,not to react, but to respond. THANK YOU.
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