Hello friends of Steemit, they are my twins Alhan and Anghelo, today I want to share with you a little bit of my experience as a mother of two children at the same time !!
The first months we had the help of my mother and that taught us a lot to set the rhythm of the kids, I still remember her first advice: "If both of you cry at the same time and you do not have anyone to calm you down, let them cry moment, until you finish with the other, do not get nervous. On the way to the one who cries, his lungs are oxygenated. " It happened to me many times and it turned out.
My husband played a very important role to put cold pads in the moments that by fatigue, nerves and stress showed me a little discouraged. Like every man, he had a very linear view of problems. One day I was worried, the boys ate very choppy, they were upset, they cried often and I thought something was wrong. His opinion was: "Well in 48 hours you have control with the pediatrician and he will tell you what to correct". It was the tranquility I needed. When I went to the doctor, he told me that the first tooth was coming. There was the cause of my concern!
I did not have many moments for me, sometimes even bathing was a complex mission, it depended if there was someone at home to stay with them. Sometimes that annoyed me, but I tried to think that the physical effort was for that moment, it would last that stage and from the two years really everything would be easier. It was a matter of waiting, shouldering and enjoying them.
My children today are 4 years old, they are intensely active, cheerful, daring guys and, above all, safe.
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