I have some tips that make us not bored with our spouse. Before I explain some of these tips, I want to explain three things that cause us to get bored with our spouse. These three things are as follows.
First, relationship between us and our couple has been established for more than four years. The relationship is not passionate anymore. The relationship is bland. Love in that relationship loses interest. Level of love in the relationship is reduced.
Second, the relationship does not contain deep emotional attachment. The relationship does not contain romance. The relationship is "arid".
Third, the relationship does not contain anything new. The relationship becomes monotonous. As a result, the relationship does not contain mutual understanding, mutual adaptation, and mutual support. The relationship also lacks intimacy.
Source: https://www.catholicmatch.com/institute/2015/02/how-to-love-your-spouse-with-your-whole-heart/
So, the way that makes us not bored with our spouse is as follows.
First, we must know that true love is not passionate love. True love is not just passion. True love contains intimacy and commitment.
Second, we must give affection to our spouse. The affection is in a form of touch, encouraging words, quality time, service, and gifts.
Third, we must tell our spouse about everything about ourselves. We must share our past, our daily activities, and our future plans with our spouse. We must also share our feelings about ourselves and others with our spouse.
Fourth, we and our spouse have to do new activities. These activities may take a form of new hobbies or new challenges. We and our spouse must enjoy these new activities.
If we do these four things, we will not be bored with our spouse.