If you had to deal with religious fanatics or people who are "not quite a" you can see what is going on exactly what they claim in their lives. How can I take advantage of this effect to normal people? Almost everyone would like to make the fate of the play by his rules.
Once upon a time, psychologists have invented such a word as affirmation. It is a formula, a short statement that the person repeats constantly. By faith in his claim, the person programs your mind and body. This has the effect of certain events in my life, good or bad - depending on the formula.
Our goal - to be successful, so we should only use positive affirmations that should be formulated as a fact. And always in the present tense.
For example:
1) I am the best (athlete, lawyer, lover ..)
The constant assertion of this, make believe in this fact and you and others. I will not clutter up your brain a list of great men as examples of the work of this formula. Installation of "I am the best" causes a person to have a better look, to learn, to become the best and the last to be the best.
2) I know I can do anything.
If someone can do it, then you can. And if you can not do it to others, it means to do it, only you can.
3) I am full of energy and spirit.
Positive, it emerges immediately after waking up. Repeat this formula as soon as awake. The day will be difficult? Nonsense! With your power you can handle with all the problems.
4) I am happy to meet all the challenges in my direction, decision of crisis - it is my strong point!
It's like a game and passion in this case is very appropriate. You suspect that there will be problems? Excellent! We will fight and we will win!
In fact, affirmations for yourself, you can think of any number. Just do not need to invent them immediately tens. Confusing. And wear the appearance of who or what you want to be. For example, a girl who wants to be irresistible in the company should feel the envious glances of rivals. It must feel with what interest looking at her man and be ready for it.
Yes, it happens that a person at some point in time is in a depressed state. And here in front of an important meeting, an exam and not to affirmations. In this case, you definitely will "pofigizma effect." Those. a person makes a decision: "Yes, come what may! I do not care this exam. "(Meeting, conference). And the result comes out the winner.