Is this your a story from your personal experience? You know, from my own unique standpoint or point of view the answer is within ourselves. You should trust what yourself know and act from your heart. Believe in yourself. Have courage. Act with all your mind, heart and soul; you know what to do. And for the very least, maybe you could try to breathe easy, meditate, (well focus on your breathing for starters) and deeply trust in yourself, in all of your abilities that everything will be take cared of. Act with your fullness of attention from moment to moment. Do not fret nor fear; just stay aware without judgement for all that is happening. Once you have truly have the compassion for yourself to move on and truly love and accept yourself; your external reality will change.