Married 7 years old, three children, I am now 36 years old. The first four years of our family life were joyful for me, although they were marred by scandals with his relatives.
We had the first child - a boy and I stoically tried to save the family and our relationship. Although already from the first year of our life I felt coldness from my husband, a certain distance, which he referred to as fatigue from work.
After the birth of the second child, I quite accidentally found out that he has a mistress (he did not turn off the phone, and I stayed on the line and heard their conversation). For me it was a huge shock, he begged me to keep silent about it, blamed, knelt, promised to correct, wept. In general, I left it in secret from everyone, did not want to get divorced, two children after all. He became softer and more attentive, but only for a while. For a long time it was not enough, then an unexpected pregnancy and a third child!
In six years I gave birth to three children. As a result, all the children are on me, the house is natural. He is constantly at work, I have a roof going from a permanent decree and a pile of children. There is no help from him, only if you bathe in children and then you have to demand, on requests for rest - refusal, he gets tired much more than me, poor health. About sex in general, you can not say anything, we are seven years of married life we sleep separately from each other, because I sleep with children, and he needs to sleep! And it does not interest him all this. And even despite the fact that after three births I quickly recovered, put myself in order and began to look better than before the wedding, it did not make a significant impression on him.
In the end, in the eighth year of his life together he infected me with an infection! So it took 20 days, there are antibiotics. In general, such a fun I have a personal and sexual life, just like in a fairy tale. When clarifying the relationship, he said that he never loved me! To explain his behavior can not in any way, feels a deep sense of guilt, does not want a divorce, asks him to give him the last chance. How to live with him after this, who knows? What to do with seven years of marriage? And how are the children?