Hello beautiful people. Hope you all are doing amazingly well. According to the above topic, i'll be talking about how love,especially in relationships, can be renewed. I hope you all will get one or two things to hold on to as you read on. Thank you.
Recovering or renewing means to make something as good as new, it also means restoring something to an original condition. For examples, you can renew your cars, houses, books, and so on.
Talking about how to renew ones first love in the family, love means, having strong affection or tender feeling for someone.
There's a question there that; after 10-20-30 years, will the love still remain the same?
We all should understand that the enemy is always interested in families and tries to do everything possible to bring down families. We should also note that the way the enemy will enter into family A is different from that of family B. We should be very careful of the attack of the enemy.
•Before you get married, do away with over familiarity, I mean, assumptions that make you take yourselves for granted.
There's a story of a couple that, one day, before they got married, the lady hit her leg on the stool in the sitting room and the man was running around to see how he can take care of the leg, which he did with much pampering.
Now, after marriage, few years after, the wife hit her leg on that same table and then the next thing the husband said to her was:
Are you blind???
Wow... Imagine that. What he never would have said back then. Here, to renew ones first love, one has to go back to doing as it used to be at the beginning of it all.
•Immaturity
There are some husbands who get back home really late in the night and when their wives try to question it, they respond harshly and yell I AM NOT A KID. Ofcourse he's a kid. Its only an immature man that will treat a woman that way. Afterall, he didnt start to do that when they first got married.
Other things that causes the love to go down and needs to change are;
•Bad perspective about marriage
•Not taking divorce serious
•Bad attitude to Sex
•Poor physical appearance
•Poor home management
•Wrong attitudes to in-laws
•Lack of mutual respect
•Pride
•Not accepting faults and
•Finding it difficult to apologize
Looking critically at the above, we'll realize that, before we get married to our spouses, we used to be at our best behaviours. Whatever the man says to the woman is correct and whatever the woman says to the man is perfect. Lets go back to our drawing boards and make things right. Our relationship should not be "For better you stay, for worse you go". Lets make sure we keep doing things right with each other, before getting and even after. Lets allow love to reign!
Thanks so much for reading...
Till I come your way next time...
I remain your sugar lovey dovey
