The comparison between humans is not healthy since each one was created according to the will of God and biologically according to family genetics but we are really unique and we should not compare or let anyone compare us with others because it is not healthy on the contrary it is a contempt action.
¡We are unique in the place where we are!
Everyone owns and loves their actions and acts according to their scale of values or principles.
In the same way it is not healthy for Christians to compare themselves with each other or compare themselves with people who perform praise or boast actions among themselves.
In this regard the Bible says about this the following:
2 Corinthians 10:12
12 Because we dare not tell or compare ourselves with some who praise themselves; but they, measuring themselves for themselves, and comparing themselves, are not judicious.
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We should not use terms or actions like this since this type of act is not justice but rather vainglory. We must live to please God without paying attention to the bad actions of others.
We should not live on what another person does unless they are good values in Christianity worthy of imitating in order to renew our thoughts for good.
Philippians 4: 8
"For the rest, brothers, everything that is true, everything honest, everything fair, everything pure, everything kind, everything that is of good name; if there is any virtue, if anything worthy of praise, in this think. "
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And not only "think" r but practice all of the above if we want to please God, when we renew our thoughts for good we do not seek to compare ourselves with another but rather we walk joyfully in the Lord practicing all good work and all good thoughts
Belonging to a group having friends or congregating somewhere is not a reason to compare ourselves with them because friends certainly do not compare or wish to be what each one is. Friends share good ideas and want the best of each other and if one deviates the other makes him return.
The comparison does not come from God nor is it a fruit of the spirit. Remember that Satan wanted to be like God and rebelled against Him until he became what he really is.