Marital rape is a matter of definition. If a husband takes his wife violently, is it rape or is it just assault? Maybe they were wrong then, but there was never a time when a man could legally hurt a woman, whether you choose to believe it or not. Not in the English speaking world since recorded law has existed.

Self-reported rape is apparently around 1 of 6 women in their lifetimes according to reliable polling asking whether 'you ever felt forced' to be sexual with a man. Take that kind of 'evidence' for what it is worth.

One in four/one in five statistics seem to have a single origin of some women doing a study of specific institutes of higher learning whose numbers, they said, couldn't be generalized. Your one in three seems to be entirely fictional.

As for rape that results in convictions - you say 2 to 8 % totally disproved, right? Why don't you look up how many are actually proven? You might look at that as a sign of systematic discrimination, but it could also be that there are lots of mattress girls out there who don't seem to share the communal definition of "consent"; or a variety of other reasons why women might look back on something they fully consented to and feel ill-at-ease with it.

But that is not rape and before you think of me as an asshole or saying this, let me just remind you that however disgusted you are with my point of view, I find it disgusting that you and your ilk have so little sympathy for the woman who is beaten and raped during a B&E, or who is surrounded at a party of strangers or drugged or whatever, that you would compare them to someone like a mattress girl thinking "I kind of felt forced to do that."

I would agree that men who make women feel bad about themselves and who act in such a way that women regret having sex with them, that these men are bad human beings and should be disliked and socially censured... that being said, if a man can get you to have sex with him, even if you didn't want to, it is still consent.

Don't have sex with shitty men. Don't stand by as your friends have sex with shitty men. Condemn shitty men and call them out. Do this and you can fix the problem you are trying to address. However, playing pretend about 'all men' and 'rape culture' and all that sort of 'I have a very simple hive mind incapable of nuance' bullshit will never achieve anything so if you insist on doing it, just please acknowledge that it is because all you care about is being perceived as a good person; i.e. a good person actually cares to fix problems whereas 'rape culture' idiots just want to be perceived as caring to fix problems.