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You should tell your mother that the school is everywhere the same. Mothers should also discipline their children that school fees are quite expensive. Children are also taught to understand the conditions that parents have been sending their children to school with difficulty, especially if the school is a favorite school so the child should adapt and familiarize themselves with things that are not comfortable to be comfortable and try their best because of opportunities as a child who is accepted into a favorite school is not easy. A child must understand what gratitude means. Ladies and gentlemen remember, a verse which states that if we are grateful it will be added to the pleasure, if it is not grateful, then my punishment is very painful, according to the word of God in Al Quran surah Ibrahim verse 7. "
The lengthy description of Ustadz Ghufron made Mrs. Maya's heart very uncomfortable. Who are the children in this world who want to have a bad school atmosphere. All parents must be sad to see their children unable to adapt and not have friends in the new school, even though the school is known as the best school and is known as a favorite school, so it was a struggle and only smart children were accepted at the school. Plus the ustadz's theory of Bu Maya's child's condition, really this is not appropriate and uncomfortable for Mrs. Maya herself who really knows what her child looks like.
Want to refute the Ustadz, but Bu Maya's time is not possible and it feels impolite. Culture in Indonesia, an ustadz or speaker is true and always true, while the listener is the one who is told, it makes Mrs. Maya lazy to refute. Bu Maya's goal to participate in this one-day education seminar is to get knowledge about children's education. During the question and answer session, Mrs. Maya asked: how to make her child feel at home in school and able to adapt well because if it was taken out of school it felt very dear because the school was a favorite school whose entry was very difficult. But Mrs. Maya did not get what she wanted.
Yes, Mrs. Maya is right and the ustadz is not wrong.
There is no absolute or absolutely correct word for a case, moreover the case befell the person. So those who know best what to do are the parents of the children themselves because a case that befell a child is seen rather than the family background and background of the previous life. In addition, the child's childhood, parental treatment of children and much more, parenting parents which more or less affect the situation and life and habits of the child, also affect cases that occur in a child.
There is no one hundred percent education theory right or right, which actually happens is whether or not we are compatible with the theory, right or not the theory is with our case and this all goes back to each family. The term is how they educate children, so cases and their solutions will depend on the pattern of education and the mind of the parent, not depending on any education. So a mother or father does not need to bother too much to attend an education seminar every week, just participate as a means to increase knowledge and add insight. However, every decision and path of education that is made is dependent on the parents themselves, not depending on any seminar or theory and clearly the solution for every child in a family is of course different even though the child comes from the same womb.
So again in the case above, if Bu Maya or many parents hope that the problem of her child will be finished with a lecture from the cleric or trainer from anywhere, then to answer all the problems of the child, know that the key is the parents themselves. Understand the child as an individual just like when we also want to be understood and understood by others. Look for the root of the problem that makes the child not feel at home, then find the best solution, of course, do not escape asking for guidance from God.