It's your life, you got to make the rules for it.
When you make rules for others to follow is where most folks get into trouble.

It is only true for you, if it is true to you.

It is ok to follow the examples before you, but when you become a true belieber, you might want to examine that.
Only you can determine what is right for you.
You can't determine that for others.
They have to decide for themselves.