Many would call this "coercive" and classify it as rape. If this happened to a woman it would be considered largely to be rape. I'm really sorry this happened to you, what she did was shitty.

I think a lot of women feel really powerless, so they feel in order to get what they want they have to be emotionally manipulative. These are the same women who hit and push their boyfriend's around because they feel like nothing they're doing makes any difference. They might as well be hitting a brick wall. There's that bullshit out there that "men always want sex" and therefore with that mindset they can't really reject you.

Thank for sharing this!