Hello to all!
I have decide to share my personal and individual process of self change through self honesty and self forgiveness here on the Steemit platform. I have been using these tools of self honesty and self forgiveness for many years now s I have found them to be very effective in peeling back the layers of my own mind to be able to better understand myself and empower myself to self real self change to be and become the person that I would truly like to be in this world.
Today I am sharing self forgiveness on the point of how I define, regard and treat others with regards to walking and sharing this process of self realization and self change, and how defining and judging others in a particular way has affected my stance and behaviour with and towards them. If anything here s found to be useful or insightful to you, by all means feel free to share your own insights, perspective and questions. Enjoy!
I forgive myself that I've accepted and allowed myself to want and desire to change or 'fix' other people, rather than to allow others to change themselves and take self responsibility foe their own lives
I forgive myself that I've accepted and allowed myself to deflect attention away from my own process of self change and self creation by projecting a desire to change onto others as wanting to see others change
I forgive myself that I've accepted and allowed myself to not be fully and unconditionally supportive of others because a part of me fears that when those around me are fully enabled, I will not be able to control and manipulate them to suit my own self interest
I forgive myself that I've not accepted and allowed myself to fully embrace and support others who I have judged in a negative way because I still fear that they may cause me harm
I forgive myself that I've not accepted and allowed myself to be unconditional in who I support - which does NOT mean to treat everyone in the same way or support each person in the exact same way, but rather to stop the game of playing favourites of those who I see more favourable as 'more likely to actualize self change' and those who I see as not likely to actualize self change
I forgive myself that I've accepted and allowed myself to not consider and realize that support can come in any form whatsoever and is not limited to my perceived 'positive and negative behaviour/attitudes' but rather is only focused on producing the best result as far as assisting and supporting someone to actualize their own process of self change and self creation
I forgive myself that I've accepted and allowed myself to play favourites with others which will affect my behaviour towards them and my willingness to support them unconditionally, wherein I define others as favourable or unfavourable based on how I see they may suit my personal self interest and ego
I forgive myself that I've accepted and allowed myself to not walk with ALL other beings as equals
I forgive myself that I've not accepted and allowed myself to see the way in which I give people positive and negative 'point's based on my experiences with them where each positive experience or negative experience I have with them forms a judgment of them which serve as a positive 'point' for or against them, and that it is this system of judging people as these 'points' that are attributed to people which form the overall opinion and regard I have of them which then influence my behaviour/stance towards them
For more context on my process, feel free to investigate the following links and resources.
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