Men and women are different. Men tend to hold things in while women are better at sharing their emotions. This can drastically effect how you apporach your goals.
Complaining helps you feel better about bad situations. Complaining helps you endure failure. It prolongs it by making it tolerable. If you complain, you will delay your goal or fail to build up enough energy to execute your plans.
Another pitfall is blaming. When you have the perfect villain to blame all your hardships on, you also have a perfect barrier to your success. Only you are to blame for your failures, especially when it is someone elses fault. Take ownership and then take action.
In review, men and women do things differently. You must stop complaining immediately and blaming is never allowed because it will delay your success. Stop failure prolonging activities and start positive ones now.
Talk to you soon.